November 30, 2008
Tab Dump
Well, I didn't manage to finish off NaBloPoMo very well. Oh well. Here's a few things clogging up my browser tabs at the moment:- Ten Myths Conservatives Believe about Progressives. And how to rebut them at the dinner table.
- Climate change impacts are happening faster than the models predict. We are in deep doo-doo. Tim O'Reilly writes about why he loves Twitter. I especially appreciated:
I don't know who first used the term "ambient intimacy" but it's a great description of what begins to happen on Twitter. I know not just what people are thinking about or reading, but enough about what they are doing that our relationship deepens, just like real-world friendships. People who follow me on Twitter learn that I'm making jam or pies, or gardening or riding my bike or feeding the horses, things that I'd never (or rarely, since I'm doing it here) share on my blog. I know a lot more about many of my professional contacts that makes them more into friends. And in the case of my family, who keep their updates private and visible only to a limited group of real friends, we can keep in touch in small ways that mean a lot. I get special moments of my wife or daughters' day that we might not have shared otherwise. It's truly lovely.
Now - three and half weeks until Christmas and I've done almost no shopping or prep at all. We are definitely having a tree for the boy's first Christmas, though. So, you know, send him presents. ;-)
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November 25, 2008
Woozy
Hmm. What with trying to get ready for houseguests and Turkey Day, trying to work, kid-care (he doesn't start getting help from professionals -heh - until next month), and realizing Christmas is in a month and I haven't done any shopping, I'm a bit worn out and losing steam on NoBloPoMo. Was feeling pretty lightheaded and off Sunday (and into Monday), until TheGuy reminded me that we'd skipped a meal on Saturday. And did I mention my giant baby is exclusively breastfed? Literally sucking the life force right out of me, like some sort of Dementor. Awww.. I called my kid a Dementor. Bad Mama!A gorgeous sweet friendly Dementor, who laughs at rolling soccer balls and squirty bath toys, but still.
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November 22, 2008
Obama's Economic Plan
The economy is really freaking me out these days, so I'm trying not to think about it too much. I was pleased to see, however, that Obama is talking about infrastructure investment (among other things) to help. Here's Robert Reich's overview of Obama's economic plan and here's this week's radio address from Obama:We’ll be working out the details in the weeks ahead, but it will be a two-year, nationwide effort to jumpstart job creation in America and lay the foundation for a strong and growing economy. We’ll put people back to work rebuilding our crumbling roads and bridges, modernizing schools that are failing our children, and building wind farms and solar panels; fuel-efficient cars and the alternative energy technologies that can free us from our dependence on foreign oil and keep our economy competitive in the years ahead.
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November 21, 2008
This and That
Speaking of the expanding Twitter-verse, BearingPoint has compiled a list of government-related twitter feeds. I started following a few of these after skimming the list.Study says happy people don't watch as much tv as unhappy people. Hard to say which direction the causality goes, though.
Aaaaand a cute kid picture for the day:
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November 20, 2008
Email and Technology
I have hundreds and hundreds of messages in my personal email inbox. This after I've sort of quietly declared email bankruptcy a couple of times in the last few years, unsubscribed from almost everything, and started over. This depresses me. In the GTD model, this is just way too many open loops and potential commitments that are unresolved. Bad, bad, bad for my psyche.Not unrelated, my Blackberry had to be reset to its virgin state and now I have to get that all configured again. What a pain.
And of course, these here websites are still broken, broken, broken. Basically, I'm doing rather poorly on the technology front these days.
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November 19, 2008
Cheap and Easy Tech Rant Blogging
My Blackberry, within just a few days of when I returned to work, has decided to crap out. From what I can gather reading BB forums, this will require, at least, a re-install of the OS. Unfortunately, my BB is no longer talking to the "Desktop Manager" software that would allow me to do such a re-install. I've spent way too much time today futzing with it. Technology bites. I'm going to take it to a Verizon store and say "replace it." Of course, of all the times for this to happen, the week and weekend before Thanksgiving is not a time when I have a lot of time to be fussing with a telecommunications company bureaucracy and craptastic software. Booooo.<=> | Comments: 0 | in: Technology
November 18, 2008
Cheap and Easy Kid Blogging
Too tired to actually blog, so I'll get a NaBloPoMo entry done through cheap and easy kid blogging, er, bragging, er, blogging. Look! A cute kid! In winter pjs! Hurrah!
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November 17, 2008
Opportunity Cost
As George W. Bush's administration continues its quest to prove that Republican and rightwing governing philosophies can indeed bankrupt the richest nation on earth (yes they can!) Atrios and TPM point out one of the many opportunity costs and suggests we take healthcare costs off the books of these companies we're bailing out:if we're throwing around billions and trillions of dollars we might as well get something good. Instead of writing a big check to the auto companies or loaning them money we could, you know, enroll all their employees in the new national health insurance system.And before some wingnut starts screeching about "socialism" (without any understanding of the term), tell that to the trillion taxpayer dollars your hero George Bush just gave to his cronies on Wall Street, mm'kay?
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November 16, 2008
Journally Again
Once again too tired and wrung out to properly blog. Some journally bits:I have a very stiff and sore neck that if it doesn't get better overnight will probably cause me to wake up and be immobile - it's that kind of near-spasmy nerve pinch kind of ouchie. No fun.
Our neighbor kindly raked up the leaves on our little patch of grass in front of the house today while his dog supervised (so cute). I promised him cookies the next time I make some. I've been promising TheGuy some oatmeal-cranberry-cherry cookies for weeks - Penzey's has a recipe we want to try - need to carve out a window to whip them up and drop some by the neighbors' as well.
Busy weekend, as all of our weekends are lately - mostly with household management stuff and keeping the kid supplied with all the things he needs to be supplied with. We finally retired the borrowed co-sleeper for TheLittleGuy (which had long since become a laundry basket storage place) and put the borrowed crib together. One of these days he might sleep in it - at least for a nap. Among other supplies we got him today were some soft blocks to play with. He laughed out loud when I was showing them to him, which is a new trick he's learning. He'll laugh when we deliberately try to make him laugh, but spontaneous laughter at something he observes is still quite rare (this was only the 2nd or 3rd time).
Two technology things that are bugging me lately: 1) My MacBook has the problem with the clickpad that is apparently known at Apple HQ (sometimes unresponsive) and its Wifi craps out randomly now and then and 2) Firefox 3 sometimes becomes completely unresponsive to any URLs being typed into the URL oval at the top of the browser; it also randomly stops loading CSS for some pages now and then. Both are irritating. Otherwise I like both the MacBook and Firefox a great deal.
I had a very strange dream the other night about attending a grade school friend's wedding and a bunch of us all of a sudden realizing we were in a musical performing a song we had not rehearsed and trying to figure out some bobbing up and down choreography on the fly. Seriously. I am clearly not getting enough sleep.
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November 15, 2008
Cabinet Rumors
There are rumors swirling around the Beltway that Obama is considering Hillary Clinton for Secretary of State. I live a mile outside the Beltway, so the only reason I know this is because of what I read on the Intarwebbies. That is to say: I'm in no way privvy to Beltway rumors. Alas.Anyway, just as I thought she would not run for President (and was wrong), I'll be very surprised if she's seriously considering this. It just goes to show why no one hires me for my political strategy acumen. I haven't gone digging around very much, but the best discussion I've found so far is the comment thread at FiveThirtyEight.com. Some seriously Machiavellian stuff people come up with. I'm impressed. My favorite that would not have occurred to me:
1) Biden chose to accept the VP nod for ONE TERM ONLY. He will NOT run again in 2012.It's not my favorite because I want it to happen, it just amuses me how obsessive people can get about Hillary Clinton.
2) Clinton agreed to back off her delegate fight on condition that Obama PROMISED TO REPLACE BIDEN in 2012 with HER.
3) She wins the VP slot in 2012 - and steps into the Presidency in 2016.
Booga booga!
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November 14, 2008
Plum Tuckered
Exhausting day, and once again I got nothing for this here bloggy-thing.Journal-y, instead, then. I got lost on the way to work this morning. Argh. While I'm transitioning back, I've been driving in rather than taking the Metro, and took a wrong turn (or missed a turn, or something) in the drizzly rain this morning. Rrrrrrr. I rarely drive downtown-that's my excuse. I was very worried that I was going to run into road closures while trying to find my way to the office due to the G20 meeting this weekend, but fortunately I did not. Still, it made me later than I'd wanted to be. Grump.
TheLittleGuy is working on his skillset every day with incremental improvements in one dimension or another happening all the time. He has rolled over (back to front and front to back) a couple of times, but stopped doing that to grow a second tooth and nom nom a little bit of banana. He's also ever more skilled with his paws and is fast approaching the grab-everything-and-toss-it-on-the-floor stage. I worry a little bit that the kid will speak first in LOLcat-ese, because I talk to him like that sometimes: "You haz a toof!" Hehe.
Thanksgiving is the week after next, people!. We have neither the time nor energy to brine and prep the bird this year, so we sent up the bat signal to one of our fine local catering establishments (aka Whole Paycheck) and will get the bird and a few sides from them. Yumm.
My constant low-grade backache starting with surgery-recovery-atrophy followed by lack of exercise and lugging my giant baby around is now being exacerbated by that old familiar work stress settling into its usual knots in my shoulders. Oh. Joy.
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November 13, 2008
Genius Playlists
TheGuy and I finally upgraded our primary iTunes box so that we can do Genius playlists now. And what a treat that is! We have more than 14,000 songs (legal!) in our library, but somehow end up constantly rotating through the same 10-15 albums or so. The Genius playlist is a great way to find old music we forgot we owned in the dusty, cobwebby recesses of our hard drive. I remember a decade ago (or more) when there were prototype applications out there of these types of albums and one could spend hours and hours inputting your likes and preferences and then seeing what was recommended. Pandora (which I've never found the time to play with) and now this playlist technology are much nicer.On a related note, while we almost always have music playing in the house, I rarely have time to consciously listen. As a result, I have only the vaguest impressions of the new Ray Lamontagne and Randall Bramblett albums (good, and pretty good but too much electric guitar, respectively).
Also related: technology like this only makes me buy more music (notwithstanding that I don't listen to as much as I'd like). I'm hardly the first to note that the record companies really really screwed up in not understanding this dynamic.
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November 12, 2008
On Breastfeeding
We are just about to start TheLittleGuy on solids (food other than breastmilk) and in fact today I gave him a couple of small pieces of banana on a whim. I thought I'd jot down a few of my impressions of breastfeeding as yet another story/voice out there in the Google-verse for women who are curious about it. I learned a lot by reading other women's stories, after all. (I kept a pregnancy journal password-protected, but may edit and move some of that public at some point as well, for the same reasons.)First, some caveats: I tend to ascribe to AskMoxie's motto of by any means necessary. She often uses it in the context of sleep issues with children, but here I mean that how anyone feeds their infant is, obviously, up to them. While I personally tend to resonate most to the La Leche League point of view regarding breastfeeding, I recognize it's not for everyone and formula is not poison. (I was a formula-fed baby myself and was absurdly healthy as a kid and don't think I'm particularly dumber than my peers.) So, do whatever works for you and your family.
That said, I think the science is pretty clear that, all things being equal, breastmilk is a superior food for infants. Before I was pregnant I had heard many horrible things about the big formula companies dissing breastfeeding in an effort to get mothers to buy formula. I've found the complete opposite, however. I somehow ended up on the "mom" list for the formula companies and they send me samples now and then and quite a bit of literature and, from what I read, are scrupulous about always pointing out that breastmilk is preferred. There are plenty of criticisms to be made of the Big Food conglomerates, of course, but this isn't one I've seen evidence for. Similarly, I've heard people complain about LLL 'lactivist nazis' and I've been to a few LLL meetings and that's not been my experience there at all, either. Like many parenting issues, this is clearly a religious issue for some, but I haven't run into any particular nastiness either way.
Another caveat: TheLittleGuy and I have been really fortunate and found breastfeeding incredibly easy. He's almost 5 months old and we have had basically no issues so far (I emphasize so far as I know this could change at any moment). We had a little bit of an issue with foremilk/hindmilk imbalance early on that block feeding easily cured. No mastitis, no thrush, only the occasional slightly plugged duct (that nursing and warm baths cure) and, as mentioned before, he is growing like crazy - off the charts - so clearly something about breastmilk agrees with him. I point out all that to acknowledge that we've had it easy and this undoubtedly colors my views about the topic. As I'm transitioning back to work and he's transitioning to childcare, things may change (I'll be pumping at work (Moooooo!) as we want him to stay on breastmilk as long as possible - ideally until he's at least a year old) - so this rosy picture may not remain for us, but so far, it's been good and I wanted to jot some notes down now before it all changes again. I haven't had any supply problems either, so far. When he was about 4 weeks old I started pumping for 10 minutes every morning and freezing whatever I got to have as a back-up supply. I now have a freezer full of breastmilk downstairs, and I joke that the child will be having breastmilk pancakes when he's 12.
Before TLG was born, the advice I was given was to try breastfeeding for a day, then 2 days, then 2 weeks, then 6 weeks, then 3 months - that at each stage it gets easier and not to get too discouraged too quickly. While we didn't have much trouble, that was my attitude - to just get through the next timeframe and see how things were at the end of it. So I'd pass the same advice along. At around 4 weeks we tried a bottle with TLG and he took it fine - another way in which we have been lucky. When he was about 3 months old he started being willing to take breastmilk straight from the fridge, without the need for warming. So now if we're going to be out for any length of time, I just pack a bottle in a little chillpack and away we go.
I've no objection to breastfeeding in public and think anyone who complains about it has some serious issues. But, after I had some minor healing complications from the c-section my midwives told me to nurse TLG laying down. We're still most comfortable nursing that way. Add that to the fact that TLG is huge (and still can't sit up by himself) and we find nursing while out and about to be a bit of a logistical challenge. I've done it, but since he needs practice with the bottle to get ready for when he's in daycare, we just tend to use excursions as an excuse for him to use a bottle.
As for pumping, that's gone fine, too. Did I mention: MOOOOOoooo! Whenever he takes a bottle, I just pump the amount he took from a bottle and freeze it, so that proper signals about what supply he needs are sent. I get varying amounts during my 10 minute sessions in the morning, but invariably it's between 3 and 7 ounces - usually 4 or 5. Enough for a bottle to take with us on an excursion if needed, otherwise I freeze it. I have a little system where there are always 2 bottles worth of milk in the fridge, a dozen or so bottles worth in the freezer upstairs, and then rest of the stash in the freezer downstairs. We try to use frozen milk in a FIFO (first in, first out) fashion and haven't actually had to use that much of it yet. Once he starts daycare, I expect to be dipping into that stash.
The obvious side effect for me of exclusively breastfeeding a kid who's decided he's in a huge hurry to get big (did I mention he's off the charts and looks about 18 months old?) is rampant hunger and constant low-grade tiredness. If I didn't eat constantly, I'm sure I'd lose a lot of weight, but I'm also sure I'd feel like crap and it wouldn't be good for my milk supply or quality. So I'm drinking pint glass after pint glass of water all day long and trying to focus on protein and high-quality food. I've also got a little vitamin supplement regimen going. I never took a pre-natal while pregnant (they made me ill) and instead concocted my own combination of vitamins to take. I've done the same thing post-partum, and each day I take: multivitamin, C, folic acid, iron, calcium, B-complex, and a fish oil supplement for DHA. I also take a probiotic daily to try to fend off thrush - so far it's working. *knock wood* If I start to feel even the slightest bit stabby or sore, I take an extra probiotic that day.
I had mentioned La Leche League. I've been to a few local meetings. I had read enough that I didn't really learn anything at these meetings - except to reinforce that experiences vary widely - but it was nice for the support. I won't be able to go much now that I'm transitioning back to full-time work, but I'm on the mailing list, at least. Speaking of support: while worry about breastfeeding was never a source of anxiety for me during the pregnancy (there were plenty of things I was anxious about, but breastfeeding wasn't one of them), one of the things that helped me was a network of friends far and near who were encouraging about it and could offer tips. To anyone thinking about breastfeeding, find women who've done it who can help you. I even brought a lactation consultant in during TLG's 2nd week because I was worried (needlessly it turns out) about his latch. Good LCs are invaluable - if you're local and want the name of the one I used, let me know.
Finally, apart from the nutritional, health, and logistical aspects of breastfeeding, there is the emotional one. I don't find it a transcendent experience, as I've read some people describe it. But I do enjoy the quiet time it gives me with him and the fact that he finds it so satisfying, not to mention the fact that he's clearly thriving on it. He's not a kid who nurses for excessively long periods of time - he's always been pretty efficient about it - but it is not merely nutrition to him, as nursing can often settle him down and be comforting if he's distressed or overtired.
We are beginning the process of introducing other foods-just tiny bits of banana so far and maybe we'll try some sweet potato soon-but his main source of nutrition for awhile will be breastmilk - assuming we succeed with me pumping at work. I don't have any set schedule in mind for weaning. The World Health Organization recommends breastfeeding at least until the child is 2, although I wouldn't be surprised if TLG decides he's done before then.
So that's one person's experience - at least a few highlights anyway. I'm sure I'll think of more things to say about it, but if anyone has questions or wants tips or advice, just drop me a note. The best resources I've found whenever I've had a question, in addition to my buddies, are KellyMom and La Leche League International.
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November 11, 2008
Twitter and its Ilk
The first few months I used Twitter I found it an amusing diversion, but could really take it or leave it. Lately though, I am finding it much more compelling. A few things account for this - first, as always with such things, there is more of a critical mass. While some of my actual buddies don't update often enough (ahem), other entities and 'big names' that I follow provide interesting content pretty consistently. I pipe my Twitter feed over to Facebook (I really can't abide Facebook's interface - find it very confusing) so this provides an easy way for me to do 'status updates' in FB without having to be on FB. Thus, I get feedback/comments and have conversations both at Twitter and at Facebook.I am sometimes curious why people I don't know follow my Twitter feed - but hey, sometimes I go to their feed and decided to follow it in return. Anyway, a few weeks back a friend of mine who is not into blogging and all of the social-networking stuff it has spawned sent me this NYT magazine article about the "brave new world of digital intimacy." I read it, expecting to be irritated and annoyed as I am often am at such articles - usually the authors are severely lacking in the clue department. But this one wasn't bad, and in fact, the description of the appeal of something like Twitter (which on the surface appears to chronicle trivialities such as "I just had lunch"), really resonated with me. It's about presence and awareness:
"This is the paradox of ambient awareness. Each little update - each individual bit of social information - is insignificant on its own, even supremely mundane. But taken together, over time, the little snippets coalesce into a surprisingly sophisticated portrait of your friends' and family members' lives, like thousands of dots making a pointillist painting."I haven't had time to look at the following links closely yet, but various Twitter-related tools can be found here and here. O'Reilly Radar has also just put out a short report (for a fee) on Twitter and the Micro-Messaging Revolution.
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November 10, 2008
Journally
Exhausting day today. First day (half-day) back at the coal mines since TLG was born. I'll be slowly easing back into things, which flexibility I'm grateful for, but it's still a drag.So I got nothing on the bloggy front today.
Zzzzzzzzz.
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