Many, Many CurrentMom Posts

I always mean to link to my CurrentMom.com posts from here and never get around to it. So here’s all of them up to last week. Enjoy!

2011:

2011-01-06 Digital Storage Observations

2011-01-13 Personal Hotspots

2011-01-20 Scanning Social Media for Snow and Storm Stories

2011-02-03 Instagram is Lightweight and Fun

2011-02-17 Toxic Chemicals and Where the Burden Should Be

2011-02-24 Go See Mike Daisey’s New Show

2011-03-03 Three Quick Thoughts

2011-03-10 Blackberries Produce Guilt

2011-03-17 Sync All Your Bookmarks Everywhere

2010:

2010-01-07 Boxes and a Digital Wake

2010-01-14 Google’s Had Enough of China?

2010-01-21 Good Reads and Helpful Resources

2010-01-28 iPad Booga Booga

2010-02-04 Jogging Tech

2010-02-11 Snowed in and Technology Can Only Do So Much

2010-02-18 Stung by Google Buzz

2010-02-25 Who Knows Where You Are When? Locational Data and Privacy

2010-03-04 Contraception, Marketing, and Mommy Bloggers

2010-03-11 Traveling with Toddler and Technology

2010-03-18 FCC Broadband Plan is Out

2010-03-25 Television Technology, Tivo, and More

2010-04-01 Health Care Reform and Information Technology

2010-04-08 Net Neutrality Ruling Makes Broadband Plan Uncertain

2010-04-15 Everyone’s Talking about the iPad

2010-04-22 Technology’s Constant Ethical Morass

2010-04-29 Negotiating Technology Access–Kids and Their Gadgets

2010-05-06 Social Networks and Recall News Propagation

2010-05-13 Wired’s Right: Facebook Has Gone Rogue

2010-05-20 Social Networking, Jr.

2010-05-27 Exceeding Our Competence

2010-06-03 Possible Breast Cancer Vaccine

2010-06-10 Peak Oil and Personal Preparation

2010-06-17 Home Energy Monitoring

2010-06-24 Technology: The Latest Bad Mama Boogeyman

2010-07-01 Predicting Menopause

2010-07-08 Corporate Sponsorhip, Blogs, and Credibility

2010-07-15 Kids and Social Media, Yet Again

2010-07-22 Cool it Down! Climate Change, Local Action, and You

2010-07-29 Etherpad for Distributed Notetaking – Recommended!

2010-08-05 Some Light Reading – Personal MBA

2010-08-12 Timeless Game – Rubik’s Solved Once and For All

2010-08-19 Wishlist as Idea Stash

2010-08-26 Today’s Ephemera, Tomorrow’s Historical Treasure Trove

2010-09-02 Tools Update: Evernote, Instapaper, Echofon

2010-09-09 Smarter Conversations in Social Media for Entrepreneurs

2010-09-16 What’s so Special about Smart Phones?

2010-09-23 The Importance of Quality Tools

2010-09-30 Choosing a Laptop

2010-10-07 Keyboard Efficiencies

2010-10-14 Stuxnet – Creepy Software Weapon

2010-10-21 New Macbook Air – My Next Laptop

2010-10-28 Free WiFi and Web Security Vulnerabilities

2010-11-04 Four Fun iPhone Apps

2010-11-11 Yak Shaving the Basement

2010-11-18 Anticipating the Unknown – Future Indispensable Technologies

2010-11-25 Holiday Help from Technology

2010-12-02 Preliminary iPad Report

2010-12-09 Greenbacks, Not Gift Cards

2010-12-16 iPhones on the Baby’s Brain

2010-12-23 Old Fashioned (Sort of) Holiday Cards

2010-12-30 Tech Projects (and Bans) for 2011

2009:

12/31/09 Resolving to Find Time

12/24/09 Online Holiday Amusements

12/17/09 Techie Holidays

12/03/09 Find Ten Red Balloons for Uncle Sam

11/26/09 Gratitude Journals

11/19/09 Not So Isolated After All

11/12/09 Exploiting Your Kid for Science

11/05/09 Of Thermometers and Steam Cleaners and Magic Mice

10/29/09 Tools for Ubiquitous Data Access

10/22/09 Not Sewing for Halloween

10/15/09 Data Loss in the News

10/08/09 Lack of Backup Strategy Considered Harmful

10/01/09 Wave for the Future?

09/24/09 The Last Throes of Cable Television?

09/17/09 Not Yer Mama’s Privacy Policy

09/10/09 Google Books – Legal and Technology Challenges

09/03/09 Snow Leopard – Virtuosity in Software?

08/27/09 Parenting is not a Market-Based Activity

08/27/09 Succumbing to the iPhone

08/13/09 Taking Back the Beep

08/06/09 Discernment in a Disinformation Age

07/30/09 Technology-Enabled Oversharing? Nah.

07/23/09 Making Media of Our Lives

07/16/09 Free Stuff

07/09/09 Say Everything – Refreshingly Well-done

07/02/09 Metro is Infrastructure

06/25/09 Managing Email’s Insanity

06/11/09 Too Much Tech on Travel

06/04/09 Technology Elsewhere

05/28/09 Gadgets Galore

05/21/09 Hubble Teaches: Collect Some Data!

05/14/09 Book Replacements

05/07/09 Anti-Social Technologies

04/30/09 Unplugging and Disconnecting

04/23/09 Getting Things Done with a Kid?

04/16/09 Infrastructure Vulnerability

04/09/09 Happy Birthday, WWW!

04/02/09 Federalizing Cybersecurity

03/26/09 Clever Telephones of the Future

03/19/09 Archiving Digital Photos

03/12/09 Parental Monitoring of Electronic Communications

03/05/09 Tech-Enabled Ubiquitous Music

02/26/09 Calendaring – High Tech or Low Tech?

02/19/09 Children’s Autonomy and Privacy Online

02/12/09 Are Technology-Enabled Toys Over-the-Top?

02/05/09 Television’s Place in the Home

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The Relative Importance of Condescension in the Current Mess

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Eccentric Flower poked me on Twitter to say something about populism and liberals. (Link goes to the post in question.) And, you know, I do so enjoy opining. And even more so when such opining is explicitly requested.

But of course, the topics EF touches on in this post are… complex. And my response was that if I started typing about this stuff I would never stop.[1] It’s an onion topic – multi-layered – you can just keep peeling and peeling. And those topics are tough to blog about, at least for me, because I always want to keep drilling (or abstracting) to get to the core of the problem. In the United States, a lot of political issues, if you peel back enough layers, come down to race and/or the tension between authoritarians and enlightenment thinkers. There’s probably another thread there, too, maybe related to the appropriate roles of capital and government. Ya think? But anyway, how that all plays out for particular topics (gay marriage, public school reform, the existence of HOAs, urban planning, whatever) is, of course, the interesting bit. Interesting if you get to be an above-it-all analyst. Sort of more stressful if you’re in the out-group that gets the short stick on whatever issue. (And for different issues, different out-groups manifest.)

So, the swirl of topics around liberals, populists, unions, and so on is one of those complicated topics that merit whole books, right? To trace back the source of the conflict, and get to the nub of the real disagreement(s), that is. I don’t have enough information or data to say anything really informed about this stuff. I just have some general … inclinations that seem to be driven by some core assumptions I tend to make about the world as it is and the world as it should be (until and unless more data convinces me otherwise.) So just some quick thoughts, all of which will be over-simplifications.

On unions: I have never belonged to a union. My immediate family are not union members. Some of my extended family were in a union (I think) working at a ‘shoe shop’ long ago. Dimly lit, crap pay, and they all ended up with various RSI types of injuries. I am glad they had an organization to look out for them, at least a little bit.

In general, my inclination is almost always to align with the people over the powerful. Trite, but there it is. For context, McMurtry’s “Can’t Make it Here Anymore” breaks my heart every time I listen to it.

Should I hate a people for the shade of their skin
Or the shape of their eyes or the shape I’m in
Should I hate ‘em for having our jobs today
No I hate the men sent the jobs away
I can see them all now, they haunt my dreams
All lily white and squeaky clean
They’ve never known want, they’ll never know need
Their shit don’t stink and their kids won’t bleed
Their kids won’t bleed in their damn little war
And we can’t make it here anymore

Will work for food will die for oil
Will kill for power and to us the spoils
The billionaires get to pay less tax
The working poor get to fall through the cracks
So let ‘em eat jellybeans let ‘em eat cake
Let ‘em eat shit, whatever it takes
They can join the Air Force, or join the Corps
If they can’t make it here anymore

And my impression is that, bad apples aside, unions are a force for good against exploitative, unchecked capitalism. I saw Dan’s comment in the thread about the union holding him back from working at full performance capacity. I don’t think that phenomenon is unique to unions at all – having seen similar dynamics in my own white collar professional office environment. I see no other strong voice for working people (unionized and non-unionized) than organized labor. I appreciate my weekends, protections against child labor, and many other hard-fought gains. And I think there’s no question that Big Business and the capitalist imperative will continually seek to erode these gains and protections wherever and whenever possible (for reasons that merit its own series of books).

Put another way, one can look askance at or have mixed feelings about or have had a bad formative experience with almost any large-scale institution or organization. But the hate for unions, as EF points out, is something to behold. Of course, some large-scale organizations do result in more harm than good. (My gut reaction is to place organized religion in the ‘more harm’ column, but that’s a digression.) But, on balance I think we’re better off as a whole, given the terrible givens, with a strong labor movement than without.

Now, regarding the broader question of liberals and populists. My first instinct with such question is always to punt. To disdain the labels and say I can’t address the topic without understanding how these terms are being defined. My early training was a mathematician kicks in – begin any argument by defining your terms. And political labels in this country in particular have become almost meaningless (reasons for which, again, merit entire libraries of their own). I read the article EF pointed to, and while the thesis is clever, even cute, as with many such issues, I think …. it’s complicated. And more complicated than the author seems to acknowledge.

No one likes to be condescended to, sure. And it is easy for the well-informed to become impatient with the not-so-well-informed. (See, there’s my own condescension right there, right?) I’m just really not sure that ‘liberals’ is quite the right slice – back to the terminology question. A purely technocratic approach to governance and policymaking will fail. There is certainly a particular sort of person who likes to think that one can apply rational analysis in order to inform high-level policymaking. I may even be one of these people. Or maybe I used to be. But it’s clear that rational argumentation and analytics, while I would argue necessary to the creation of good policy, are far from sufficient. (And, by the way, by rational policymaking I mean something deeper than some simple economic cost/benefit/tradeoff hooey.)

But you have to meet people where they are. And most people are not inclined to give much weight to analytical rigor. It’s just the way we, as a species, seem to be wired. (I don’t mean to be quite as essentialist as all that, but…). We haven’t the time or the training to do more than glance at headlines. And we all suffer from confirmation bias and a desire to believe that what feels right is right. Not to mention that our own personal metrics for “rightness” are optimal.

I think the issue, however, is less about whether a certain fraction of so-called liberals can be “condescending” and more to do with whether there is a calculated and well-funded effort to stoke the flames of outrage and resentment against being condescended to in order to divert attention from other, more-concretely-harmful-to-the-offended, practices and trends. I think the evidence is clear that there is such a calculated and well-funded effort. And that it is a much bigger factor in how offended people actually feel (or think they’re supposed to feel) about elitist snootery than any elitist snootery itself.

[1] And indeed, I could keep typing. But I finally decided just to post this now, or else it would just sit half-finished forever.

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Go See Mike Daisey’s New Show

I wrote a post for CurrentMom about Mike Daisey’s new show, The Agony and the Ecstasy of Steve Jobs. You should all go see it if it’s playing anywhere near you. I’ll see it next month at Woolly Mammoth.

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Trip-Induced Reflections

Loooong day ahead

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I had a work trip last week, which, while stressful and exhausting, did serve to shake up my routine a little bit. In a rare departure from my usual personal m.o., I had a connecting flight this week – with a layover in Houston. Now I remember why I hate layovers. It was a really tough choice, though, given the timing of the flights and not wanting to violate another personal rule: “never take a redeye.” So anyway, the upshot was a couple of very long travel days flying Continental. I missed Virgin America’s in-flight powerstrips and wifi a great deal. And realized my MacBook’s battery is, to put it technically, for sh*t. Oh well.

On the bright side, I finally, finally got to meet a very long time “Internet friend” who’s been an online correspondent and philosophical/intellectual ally and inspiration for cough mumblety-more-than-15-less-than-20? years. She may out her blog in comments if she wants. I put the scare quotes up there because I actually find it more awkward now to try to qualify those kinds of relationships than just to say “friend.” On the other hand, it was a good occasion to reminisce a little bit about the old days and recall the heady feelings of online communities and correspondences of long ago.

I find the whole whole cyberutopian v. “anti-Twitter revolution” discourse to be pretty silly all-around, and (as is common) tend to find myself aligned with Jay Rosen on this question. However, it did please my cynical, depressed, and disheartened political soul a little bit to watch a true revolution happen live on my computer screen, with real-time live updates from Tahrir Square flashing by in my Twitter feed and think back and know that I knew I was looking at something extraordinary that day in Miller Library when I sat down at a dumb terminal and my friend told me: ‘type mail.’ I mentioned the other day that I remember that moment (and many other similar firsts of my time in “cyberspace” (much as the term annoys me)). Now, I was a little late to the party in some ways, just by virtue of age and economic background, but even still – it felt like something special, and every once in awhile it still does.

Related: I see and hear about a lot of anxiety and frustration with Facebook. And believe me, I share it and most days I wish I could ignore it entirely. But I just try to remember: 5 years ago, Facebook (and Twitter) were not the apparent behemoths they are now. And 5 years from now, it’ll be some other service or site or feature with which we’ll all be obsessed. That’s not to say I think they’ll go away (although they might), just that they probably won’t be the only big social games in town.

But I digress… Another fun thing on my trip: listening to music on the plane with the new headphones TheGuy got me this month (for that evil Corporatized Holiday). It’s always amazing how different (and better) music sounds with good speakers and/or headphones. Especially music that’s written to be listened to closely. I enjoyed some A.J. Roach (whose music is basically utterly acoustically perfect – where you feel every note was agonized over and honed to be just so) and I was also kind of blown away by the first track (“Walking Far From Home”) off the new Iron and Wine album (Kiss Each Other Clean).

And related to that, listening to @drgrist’s 2010 mix has made me think I need to get back to my yearly mix project. I did one in each of 2005, 2006, and 2007 if I recall correctly, and then got a little distracted in 2008. I do have a running list of possible songs to include whenever I get around to doing another. Maybe sooner than later!

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Minor Information Management Tips

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Herein, a couple of minor pro tips for document management.

So, I find document and information management to be an incredible challenge. I don’t consider myself anywhere near black belt at it.  And even when I learn lessons, too often I don’t remember or bother to apply them later on.

(I frustrate myself a great deal, in so, so many ways.)

I’m jotting down these tips/reminders mostly for my own benefit, but maybe they’ll help someone else, too. For context: I work with diverse, multi-disciplinary, geographically-distributed teams using heterogenous tools and platforms. I have multiple projects (small projects and large Projects) going on at once and have ‘live’ interactions going with dozens of equally busy or busier individuals at any given moment (by that I mean that input from any of these people could show up at any moment). Outputs include events/meetings/workshops, documents, agendas, briefing slides, and books (as in edited, published, ISBN’d books).  (That is to say, not software code – if you’re a software engineer, there are others who should be consulted.)  In terms of sophistication, office desktop tools are about the best I can hope for, except for what I cobble together myself. Administrative support for information management and tracking is minimal. A huge amount of coordination and collaboration is done through email.

Here we go:

  • Date all documents. Use format: yyyy-mm-dd. This is classic GTD. The data format is unambigous (unlike mm/dd/yy or dd/mm/yy) and dating documents helps quickly provide context setting (and staleness) when you look at something. This is true for digital as well as handwritten notes. I try to remember to scrawl 2011-02-08 (or whatever) off the top of any sheet of paper I’m taking handwritten notes on.
  • Spend the extra 2 seconds to create a meaningful subject header in email. This is a toughie as sometimes email is so ephemeral that you’d think that something like “teleconference tomorrow” should be sufficient.  But a couple of things: 1) you never know–really, you never know–what email thread is going to spawn an important conversation about something and 2) no matter how good your filing system, you may have to use text search to find it later on.  So instead of “various notes files” as a subject header, say “Medley’s notes for 2010-10 [Project X] [subgroup Y] meeting”. Moreover, it’s respectful to the people you’re emailing – assume that the person you’re emailing gets a hundred (or more) messages per day. Don’t use subjects like “tomorrow” or “can you check on this?”
  • Related to the above, don’t be afraid to rewrite the subject header of an email if the conversation has shifted or the topic has changed. I’ll often hearken back to very old-school style and rewrite subject heads as “[new topic] WAS [old topic]“.  Also related: try to keep each individual email (and email thread) about a very small set of topics/action items, where small = 1, or maybe 2. And be very clear to the recipient(s): is this an FYI? Is action needed? Is it in invitation to have a discussion?
  • Similarly, spend the extra 2 seconds to slap a specific title or header on a document. So instead of “review comments” as the inline title of a Word document, be specific “Consolidation and summary of review comments for [document x] [dated].” It’ll help you when you end up looking at the document weeks or months later and are trying to piece together context by reading it (heavens to betsy!). Instead do your future self a favor and provide some useful metadata in the document itself.
  • Apply the GTD 2-minute rule as often as you can. If a task will take less than 2 minutes, DO IT RIGHT NOW. (Otherwise, you’ll spend much longer than 2 minutes tracking it, remembering to do it later, and ultimately doing it. Who’s got that kind of time?)

In general, think in terms of smoothing workflow and easing communication and understanding for the other people with whom you’re working and communicating. Most importantly, one of those people is your future self. This blog post is spawned in part because I found myself having to go searching for some information/documentation 3 different times recently – when if I’d just labeled and stored it better in the first place, I’d've saved myself a lot of time.  Not an uncommon occurrence and I’m getting tired of it.  To the point where I’m starting to develop a taxonomy of documents I will keep mirrored in DropBox, so that I have quick access to them wherever/whenever, but that’s a subject for another post.

These five bullet points here? I follow them each probably less than half the time. It’s sad. I need to get better, if only to save my future self, who’s not getting any younger, a lot of time.

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Rape Culture

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I had no idea the Penny Arcade mess I’d read a bit about a few months back was still going on. But it is. I said on Twitter the other day:

I started scanning the latest MeFi thread about the Penny Arcade mess over lunch? WHY? WHY DO I DO SUCH STUPID THINGS???

A friend of mine asked me what was going on. I said: It will suck you in for hours and you’ll end up very depressed. So that’s my warning to anyone reading this right now who is happily unaware of what I’m referring to. But here are 3 links to scan to get a quick picture of one of the latest rounds of deeply privileged misogyny and hatefulness on the Internet.

Here’s a tumblr with the timeline.

Here’s the Metafilter thread I got sucked into.

And here’s a brilliant and hard-hitting response to it all, once again, at Shakesville. Do read the whole thing:

By all rights, this entire Penny Arcade debacle should be eye-opening for anyone with a baseline capacity for logic. Of course it was always going to go down this way. Of course treating rape a little too flippantly was going to trigger survivors, and of course triggered survivors and their allies who asked for some consideration were going to get attacked, and of course when Mike and Jerry escalated it by mocking anti-rape advocates, those advocates were going be harassed and threatened in an attempt to silence them, and so on and so on until here we are.

It was entirely predictable—and not because, as the jaded cynics of internet battles would have us believe, that’s the way the internet works, but because that’s the way the rape culture works.

The rape culture is not just about actual and attempted acts of rape, sexual assault, and sexual harassment, but also about all the other ways in which contempt and/or indifference toward other human beings’ consent, autonomy, boundaries, and right to halt any unwanted interaction in their personal spaces are violated.

For still more depressing Friday evening reading, Peter Daou.

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Egypt

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I don’t have anything informed or intelligent to say about what’s happening in Egypt right now.   A couple of inconsequential personal observations (mainly about my own media consumption): I have been listening to Al Jazeera English for a couple of days now and have been pretty impressed – especially in contrast to the vapidity of American cable news.  I have also noted that I find myself more interested in what Hillary Clinton has to say than in what Barack Obama does. Which coincides with this niggling feeling I’ve had over the last couple of months that she really probably would have made a better Chief Executive.

But American politics are really a sidestory to the larger dynamic unfolding on the world stage.  BEG over at What’s That you Said? has been doing some amazing blogging the last few weeks and months, and the last few days have been no exception. It was there I found this link to a post by zunguzungu:

But for now, I want to remind myself, publicly, that the closest thing to an honorable choice that American citizens like me have is to bear witness and solidarity to the incredibly thing that is happening right now, and to do so as humbly and reverently as we are able to do. The world is changing before us, and we will need new words to describe it if we are to be true to the best parts of ourselves, and if we are to be of any use to a world that we might still find a way to be of use to. We need to learn to listen more clearly. We have corrupted the words we were so proud of inheriting, words like “democracy,” and we need to be a lot better to learn the new words that are being coined right now, in places of which even our own ignorance is something of an unknown quantity to us, and in voices that speak, for example, in languages we don’t understand.

[...]

I have become too cynical, too jaded, too hopeless. We become spiritually dead inside when we accept injustice, when we think that expecting it is “realistic,” and watching and being realistic about the world around me has made me a much more angry, frustrated, and bitter person than I would like to be, need to be. I suspect there are a lot of holy things I’ve forgotten how to dream, a lot of words for “freedom” that I’ve lost or misplaced. And that’s the reason why — since I wasn’t here — I can’t stay away from my tiny, tenuous connection to what’s happening in Egypt right now [...]

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Quick Update

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January 23, no, wait, January 26th by the time I post this. It’s such a cliche, but 2011 is already inexorably flying by. The other day, though, I started to write “1998″ on a check, so I’ve clearly got issues when it comes to internalizing what year it is.

As I’ve written in this space so many times before, there are, pretty much constantly, issues and news and blog posts and ideas and thoughts and such that I would really like to blog about. But I seem to never find a spare moment for writing that isn’t work-writing anymore. And if I do find a moment, I don’t seem to have the brain capacity. So I’m reduced to tagging things in Pinboard and ReTweeting the bon mots of others on Twitter. Both of those efforts can be found in the sidebar on this site (and they have their own RSS feeds too, I think.)

I did manage to read a book recently; wonder of wonders. I gulped down Willingham’s recent Fables novel, Peter and Max. It was great. As is the entire Fables comic series – at least the half of it that I’ve read so far, anyway. As I tweeted the other day, it is a far superior re-imagining of other tales than Wicked was. (I was very disappointed in Wicked, back when I read it; cool concept – terribly weak execution.) Anyway, props to TheGuy for literally placing the book in my hands.

I’ve also circled back once again to Northern Exposure on DVD. Still haven’t managed to make it through the whole thing yet. But I find it to be very pleasant comfort television. Two thumbs up.

In News of TheLittleGuy: he’s doing very well. His teachers think he is “super smart” (I agree, of course, but the professional assessment is nice) and I just find him to be amazingly sweet and charming lately. I had a houseguest earlier this month whose visit happened to coincide with a weekend TheGuy was out of town. So I was pretty apprehensive about combining solo parenting (which makes me super anxious in the best of times) with a houseguest (whom I hadn’t seen in years). But TLG, to his credit, was a perfect angel for the whole visit, right down to when we said good-bye at the Metro and my houseguest said “It was nice to meet you, [TLG]” and TLG responded, completely of his own volition: “Nice to meet you, too!” I just about burst right on the spot. (He saved his meltdowns for when his Dad got back the next day. Woot!)

I’ve been having a little bit of fun with a newish photo social networking tool called Instagram. It’s iPhone-oriented. You can ‘follow’ me there (medley). I post a random photo now and then. Some of them I will also flow over to Twitter or Facebook, but not all of them. It’s an oddly-compelling little app. Check it out.

It’s now Wednesday morning and this supposedly quick post has been several days in the making. It’s snowing and sleeting out, but, oddly, FedGov is open on time today. I don’t work for FedGov (a common and understandable misconception among some of my readers), but I do have a meeting at a FedGovAgency this morning, so I’ll be driving around soon in this sleety mess. Whee!

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Favorite Things

Katxena asked about my “favorite inanimate possession” in a response to a recent post. My first reaction is to say: I have no earthly idea. But then, I’ve never been a ‘favorites’ kind of listmaker. If pressed, I can probably name a favorite color, or band, or shirt, but only if pressed. And my answers might change tomorrow. Instead, I think I tend to have favorite classes or clusters of things. I like rich jewel tones for colors, for example. I prefer spicy or mellow scents in scented candles over fruity or flowery ones. I have a vague preference for Italian red wines (although I’m a fairly omnivorous oenophile). And so on.

So I’ve been noodling on this ‘favorite thing’ question off and on since she asked, and I still don’t know. I feel like I should eliminate computing devices (pry my iPhone from my cold dead hands) and the Lynnievan (although I am very fond of it) from consideration. So let’s see… I love our heirloom hardwood bed we got several years back. I love my Tevas in the summertime. I am a big fan of blankets, but don’t know that I have a particular favorite at the moment. There are a couple of coffee mugs I prefer over all others if they happen to be clean. I love my LL Bean “Wicked Good” slippers and I’m still very pleased with our wedding bands (although they are way overdue for a cleaning and buffing, now that I think about it.)

I am trying very hard of late, though, to be less attached to things. While I don’t think I could ever go full on minimalist, I’m trying to move further in that direction. And I am finding that the more I get rid of, the more I’m comfortable getting rid of. Also, things I’m definitely not a fan of: items that provide no functionality or aesthetic pleasure and simply collect dust. More and more of those are leaving my house.

By the way, in the spirit of not emphasizing ‘stuff’ too much, we didn’t really play up the ‘presents’ aspect of Christmas with TLG this year – although we didn’t ignore it or go out of our way to avoid it either.[1] I considered our approach a success when, on his way downstairs Christmas morning, he was more interested in playing with the broom we’d left out than in pawing through the pile of gifts under the Christmas tree.

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Of course, the day after Christmas, he looked at the empty area under the tree and then back at us and said: “More presents, now?” So, maybe just a partial success.

[1] Don’t get me wrong, I love buying stuff for him and also try to regularly curate his wishlist for other TLG benefactors out there. And he has plenty of toys and books and puzzles. We’re just trying to put off the probably-inevitable materialism as long as we can.

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Moving Forward to 2011

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There’s a phrase I started hearing incessantly when I first started working in Washington; the phrase is “moving forward.” It’s one of these nearly content-free business-speak phrases that’s meant to convey some sort of reassurance of lesson or lessons learned and well-aimed activity into the future. “Moving forward, we will ensure that….” “We’ll take that into account moving forward.”

I find it kind of grating, but I also tend to adopt the regionalisms wherever I happen to reside, so I find myself using it now and then, too. And over time I’ve come to find it less of an annoying Dilbertian notion and to accept it in a world-weary sort of way. Because really, at any given moment and in any given circumstance, what choice do we have but to move forward? Even those nostalgic for a past that never was recognize deep down that we cannot actually go back to those halcyon days of [pick your preferred decade or century of bliss] – we have take the here and now on its own terms and act accordingly.

So, here it is 2011, and while I could write a retrospective of my year, I find that I really don’t want to dwell too much. It wasn’t a bad year. Many things about it were quite good. And nothing terrible or even very bad happened in our immediate family. But I have a vague personal sense of dissatisfaction with my 2010 performance overall. I don’t really have much option but to move forward, though, so that’s the plan!

And, here it is January 1st, and already:

  • We’ve been actually social – meeting some friends for brunch this morning.
  • I started a new Project 365 and kicked it off with a subject other than TheLittleGuy. (Don’t get me wrong, most will probably be of TLG.)
  • I made use of Runkeeper (although, as I mentioned on Twitter, we shall not discuss time or distance) and some new running shoes. (By the way, I understand that Runkeeper Pro is free through January – totally worth paying for, so definitely grab it!)
  • And, as soon as I hit the button here, I shall have blogged.

There were some entire months, I think, in 2010, where none of that happened. (Except the picture taking – I got pics of TLG nearly every week, I think.)

So that’s a good start, yah?

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