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It would be a shame to let the calendar year end without at least one more entry here in this increasingly empty space. Empty not so much by choice, mind you, but by circumstances known as: utter lack of mental energy by the time a slice of time opens up where I could write here. Sigh. Maybe that’ll yet change in the future, again.
I have a small slice of time right now while TheGuy coaxes TheLittleGuy to sleep. TLG is doing well, by the way, although he’s come down with a nasty bug over the holiday and coughs himself awake. (But even when he’s healthy, he resists going to sleep like no one’s business. This was pretty much driving me stark raving mad. So TheGuy stepped in and relieved me of TLG-bedtime duties for awhile. I can’t really blame TLG – I have a hard time going to sleep, too. Still; it’s crazy-making.) Apart from that one glitch, though, he’s great fun. Talking, opining, learning, and growing like mad. I still marvel sometimes when he’s wandering around the house doing his TLG thing. Who is this good-looking genius kid walking around my house? He just had his 30-month birthday. So we’ve made it to 2.5 without major trauma; yay us!
We are considering very carefully some schooling options for him for junior kindergarten and beyond–one in particular. I have a lot to say about this modern dilemma – although dilemma is much too strong a term. Still, we may need to set up a TLG education fund sooner than I’d thought. We’ll see.
Overall it has been an incredibly busy year. $WORK has been not quite as [redacted] as some years, and I’ve even managed some actual visible output, including a cover feature in one of my erstwhile discipline’s ‘big’ publications next month. It is possible that next year will not be nearly so crazy as this year. On the other hand, it’s possible that it could be just as crazy. However, the former statement has not been true at the end of most year’s, so, let’s hear it for a possible downgrade in the crazy-levels!
Parenting a toddler-turning-pre-schooler is definitely a different exercise than parenting an infant. I know – that’s obvious, but my blog, my space to state the obvious as it applies to me, blah blah. Anyway, I still feel as though I’m in a bit of a tunnel of intensity that is only slowly lessening. But now that rudimentary multi-part conversations are possible, now comes the time to sort out some tactics, not merely survival mechanisms. I have several good references that I find helpful for ideas, but, as usual, not enough time to re-read (or discuss with others) to reinforce the lessons I want to be sure to apply. So I give myself a B- (and that’s generous) in terms of meeting my own desired overall parenting approach.
Virtually all personal projects have ground to a halt between $WORK and $PARENTING. I have a faint hope that I can restart some in 2011, but I had that hope in 2010, too, and such efforts petered out quickly. Sigh.
TheGuy and I are taking a couple of days off now to try to do a mad dash to catch up on some long-lingering household projects. I am also continuing my quest to remove excess Stuff and do feel like I’m making relatively steady (if slow) progress on that. We have also been doing quite well at removing toys, clothes, and equipment that TLG has outgrown – a task made much simpler by the fact that I have an aunt who runs an in-home daycare and has 2 grandchildren younger than TLG. But, TLG’s stuff is really only a small part of our Battle Against Stuff.
On the churning, burning issues of the day,: Pfeh. What a mess. Pick your favorite burning issue – doesn’t that assessment pretty much apply?
Alright, running out of steam. I may get another window to post here again before things kick back into high gear. If so, what should be the topic?




